On my last article I was a bit confused and lost on how I can handle a certain bitch on my preschooler class. I was contemplating on asking the teacher for the parents contact numbers so I can talk to them. Just so you know guys, the kid’s mom is a teacher. Now makes me wonder what kind of students this teacher has. Anyway, my husband still advised me to just teach my kid on how to protect/fight or in simple words answer back to this bitch. I think it is not enough because somehow this bitch word is affecting my kid emotionally. From the time this bitch told my kid that he was ugly, he was somehow convinced he was. I dunno, but maybe this girl has a really ugly life or so but it seems that she is so good on using that word.
And so that was my plan, talk to this girl’s parents but then I had a realization. I can’t just be there always for my kids. If somebody bullies them again, I cannot always protect them. I cannot talk to every kid’s parents and ask them to discipline their child. I cannot just be with them forever. It’s like giving a man a fish but not teaching him how to fish. So I am back to what hubby says, just teach him to be tougher..
Why he is always right?
yes, i totally agree with your husband, "just teach him to be tougher."
i partly agree with your husband, and i also agree with you. my son attends an all-boys school and i have experienced a lot of bullying incidents when he was in preschool. what i did was remind my son all the time to say "stop it!" when somebody is bullying him. i also wrote a letter to the teacher as well as sent a copy to principal and guidance counselor, informing them that a classmate is bullying my son. i didn't want to wait for something bad to happen, recently i saw a kids eye bleeding because a classmate poked it with a pencil.
i think it's much better to teach your son to be tougher and learn to answer back to that "bitch"
on the other hand if the problem persist, how about talking to that "bitch" in a motherly way…then if she still continue doing it..talk to the teacher before to the parents…
i hope marce that your son is coping with the situation na..hope he's not bullied any more…
may follow up post marce about this "bully situation"..i gotta dig on…
hmmhh.. grabe naman un batang un ha. talaga namang kakainis.
to think teacher pa ang nanay nya. oh well, tama pa rin si hubby mo, anyway lalake yang anak mo. kaya nya yan. aja!
mahirap itong situation. iyong teacher kasi ang bully.