A Mom and a Wife Tag

I saw this tag from Enchie and Chris and I just could not resist it. This tag seems to be fun..

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Parenting Style

1. Do you exercise full or minimal control over your child’s / children’s behavior?
Yes, I am the one in control and I believe all parents should be in control over their kid’s behavior. We are responsible in teaching our kid’s what is right and what is not.

2. Do you expect your child / children to obey 100% or let her / him / them do what pleases her / him / them?
It really depends on the situation, sometimes I let them pass, sometimes I don;t it really depends, but mostly we base our decision on logic.

3. Do you welcome discussion or you simply set rules?
Of course we do, we encourage them to say what’s on their mind but there are times when I tell them, if mommy says no, it means no..

4. Do you reprimand?
Yes

5. Do you use spanking for punishment?
I used to, but now, I promised myself I will no longer hit them. I have my reasons.. and plan on writing about that and hope to discourage moms from spanking their kids..

6. Do you use some kind of a reward System for motivation?
I try to, but it is not effective, logic seems to work best with my kids.

7. Do you enjoy being a Parent?
Oh my, do you really have to ask? LOL

8. Are you a hands-on Parent or do you have a full-time Nanny?
Full time, hands on, feet on, breast on.. everything..

9. At what age would you let your child make simple decisions for himself / herself?
As soon as he already knows the concept of himself..or what he likes.. Like my youngest baby, if he wants to play this kind of toy, I just let him.. after all it is what he likes.. as long as it won’t harm him.. but if my 5 year old suddenly decides, he’ll be marrying soon, that.is.another.story.

10.Do you and your Husband have the same Parenting Style?
I really don’t know, but I always tell him that I should be the one disciplining our kids. He should not, as much as possible, be mad at them. He is working and spend less time with his kids and I believe that he should spend it wisely. So it is understood that he is the spoiler and I am the disciplinarian.

Wife Style

7. How long have you been married?
6 years

8. How do you feel about being a Wife?
* It’s fun.
* It’s just a duty.
* OK.
* I hate it.

It’s fun but I feel and think that it is also a duty, a responsibility.

9. What has been your typical sleeping attire since you got married?
* A cotton night gown.
* Sweats or Shorts
* Something sheer & soft.
* Nothing.

I wish for nothing..LOL.. a sando and pyjama and socks

10. How do you show how appreciative you are of your Husband?
* By being always affectionate.
* By giving him presents even if there is no occasion.
* By cooking his favorite dishes all the time.
* I do not show him anything.

I show him EVERYTHING! LOL kidding aside, by being passionate always

11. What do you do when your Husband annoys you?
* Keep quite for a little while.
* Just ignore whatever it is.
* Talk with him about it immediately.
* Scream at him.

Keep quiet.. it works..always..

12. You are buying or planning to buy your first house as Husband and Wife ….
* It is / going to be a large estate.
* It is / going to be in a suburb close to a big city.
* It is / going to be in a metropolis.
* It is / going to be a fixer-upper but with tremendous potential that you can fill with first-rate furniture and appliances.

It is going to be in a suburb inside a city.. we are renting on a place like that and hope to buy our own here..

13. How does your house look like at the end of the day when Hubby gets home?
* Immaculate and spotless.
* You are still finishing up your cleaning.
* Unmade bed, unwashed dishes and children’s toys all over.
* Husband’s clutter are left for him to take care of.

It never bothers him if the house is spotless or unmade, as long as there’s food on the table..

14. How do you feel about running a household?
* Always motivated.
* Dislike it, for the most part.
* Oftentimes pretending to like it.
* Whatever!

Heaven!

15. What is the sweetest gift you have given your Husband so far?

The sweetest? I really don’t know because he is not the type who dwell on sweet things, how about the sweatest? LOL

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