Dealing With Siblings Fight

Now that the kids are getting older, there are more fights than ever. The two older boys favorite game is bickering at each other. It is very painful to see them hurt each other over a single mushroom. Mushroom? Yes, they fight when the other one has more lives than the other. Oh, I am talking about Mario again. If only there’s a software on child rearing like that of project management software, life can be easier. But I don’t there would be any. The behavior of a kid is very complex. And for sure, if anyone would program a software for that, it would take years to even learn the logic, and that is for one condition only.

It was really hard dealing with them when they fight. And sometimes when I scold them, the helpers butt in telling me who is at fault. It was harder because of that. Good thing that my helper can easily understood what I tell them. I told her that she should not tell me who is at fault because I want my kids to be the one to tell me. I want them to learn how to accept their fault and learn how to admit it.

Back to Mario, oh wait, it’s not actually Mario but Naruto..now, even if I want to help them with it, I know nothing about Naruto.