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Fight Against Child Violence

Change your facebook profile picture to a cartoon character from your childhood and invite your friends to do the same. Until monday (Dec. 6) there should be no human faces on facebook, but an invasion of memories.(FOR THE FIGHT AGAINST CHILD VIOLENCE!)

For a mother of four kids, it’s not hard for me to just change my profile picture, it says fight gainst child violence, so be it. But what does it really mean? To create awareness, I think. But where it begun? Who initiated it? And how can changing your profile picture to a cartoon character will help infight against child violence?

In my search for the culprit, I first look in the website of Unicef. I knew there was one last week,National Day of Prayer and Action for Children in Makati City.UNICEF joins religious leaders to launch global initiative to promote exclusive breastfeeding. Clearly it’s about breastfeeding and not fight against child violence (I will ask some people if Unicef initiated it). I can’t find a site that offers explanation on how changing the profile pic will help in fight against child violence.

When you say it is to create awareness, it is to make the knowledge be known to public. It is to make the public understand a certain issue and in this case, child violence. So how can this profile change campaign creates awareness? Is it the curiosity that arises from other users? But really how many users will take time to research or even read about Child Violence? Or is it a way to show you support the Fight Child Violence? But what is Child Violence all about? And after the given time frame? What happens? Will the number of child abuse cases be lessen?

This maybe another case of social networking hype, but it’s fun nonetheless.

On with the more serious topic:Child Violence.

Based onRepublic Act No. 9262 ,Anti-Violence Against Women and Their Children, Act of 2004; “Children” refers to those below eighteen (18) years of age or older but are incapable of taking care of themselves as defined under Republic Act No. 7610. As used in this Act, it includes the biological children of the victim and other children under her care.

Violence is an act or a series of acts that result in or will most likely result in physical, sexual, psychological harm orsuffering. This harm includes (but notlimited) the following:

Physical
Sexual
Psychological
Economic Abuse

Physical violencecan be easily identify. It refers to acts that is done physically.Sexual violenceon the other hand refers to act that are sexual in nature. But how can one say that is sexual? Below are some acts that are considered as sexual abuse (again fromAnti-Violence Against Women and Their Children):

Rape, sexual harassment, acts of lasciviousness, treating a woman or her child as a sex object, making demeaning and sexually suggestive remarks, physically attacking the sexual parts of the victim’s body, forcing her/him to watch obscene publications and indecent shows or forcing the woman or her child to do indecent acts and/or make films thereof, forcing the wife and mistress/lover to live in the conjugal home or sleep together in the same room with the abuser;
acts causing or attempting to cause the victim to engage in any sexual activity by force, threat of force, physical or other harm or threat of physical or other harm or coercion;
Prostituting the woman or child.

But the acts are not limited to the mentioned above.

Psychological violencerefer to acts that results to mental or emotional suffering.

There is no exact day for fight against Child Violence but November 19 is theInternational Day for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect.

FUNKYFEET Not-quite-shoes

Babies and shoes just don’s sound so good to me. How can I give them shoes when in fact, I myself never really like it. I can’t breathe when I’m in closed shoes, what more my baby. But of course, it’s also impossible to take them out without anything on their feet.. It feels so wrong.. and socks are so bedroomy. So when I discoveredFUNKYFEET Not-quite-shoes, I just knew I will love it to pieces. These are socks made from imported cotton but looks a lot like shoes. Check out their collections:

Box of Little Miss Mary Janes– light pink, light blue, light yellow, pink and white
Box of Fashionista Flats– black, blue, pink, purple, light pink
Box of Super Sneakers– red, blue, orange, green, light blue
Box of Li’l Loafers– chocolate brown, olive green, black, dark blue and mocha
Box of Retro Ruffles– black, grey, red, pink and blue
Box of Bows on my Toes– turquoise and lime, grey and yellow, fuschia and purple, black and red AND lime and hot pink

Plus their new PATTERNISTA styles sold in sets of 3 pairs in a box:

Candy Janes– classic Little Miss Mary Janes style embellished with Pink Hearts, Rainbow Dots & White Stars.
Skaterboy– edgier shoe socks based on popular skater shoes topped with Checks, Skulls and Spaceships.
Safari Steppies– Iconic & wild! Leopard, Giraffe & Zebra printed flats with dainty bows.

Funkyfeet socks are ideal for babies 0-12 months old.

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The Importance of a Clean Environment for Children

A recent study of little children’s living environment showed that children lived in less-than-hygienic conditions. More than that, children are given the wrong type of food. Instead of making children some good homemade food, almost a majority of them are being fed processed food. Most of these children are surprisingly from good-income families. Ironic indeed, as good-income families have the power to make good choices. They obviously don’t need Payday One loans to feed their children.

The study attributed the cause to the lack of quality parenting. Parents were either ignorant or lacked literacy. Another cause was the fact that most parents could not cook for their children and instead relied on processed food. Now coming to a hygienic and clean home; keeping one such home is relatively inexpensive. The most common approach to keep a floor clean is to wash it with a mixture of bleach and warm water.

The beds that children sleep on are safe as well as dangerous. Children often tend to stand up on them with their shoes. Zillions of bacteria are transmitted to the bed. And these are the same beds that children sleep on. So you can imagine the kind of bacteria that might have gotten into the children. That’s why it is important to change bedsheets every day. It pays to have clean bedsheets for children.

Keep playing zones separate. Agreed, children are playful and might cross over to other areas to play. But with time and effort, children could be made to understand. By segregating playing zones with other living areas, a lot of hygienic conditions can be created. First, unhealthy stuff from outside does not enter the house. Second, children have the license to play as much and as dirty as they want, provided they wash themselves up before entering the other areas in the house.