How To Handle School Bully

If there is one thing that I am anxious about schooling, it’s the bully classmates. I don’t know how to handle them. My kids are not the bully type, actually they are well behaved while inside the school premises. But I always tell them that if somebody pick on them, they should not just keep quiet. I told them they should fight. I don’t know if it is the right approach but I don’t want them to think that other kids have the right to bully them. I did not labor for more than 5 hours, screamed during contraction and spend many sleepless night so that some child can have someone to pick on. I did not bring up my kids to be some body’s guinea pigs. My kids are for greater things.

Anyway, my dilemma starts now. As I have said my kids are not the bully type. They adore and have high respect for their teacher. Whenever I told him about fighting bully kids, he would say his teacher will get mad or to that effect. But then again, there was this classmate of his that is making me crazy. I imagine telling my first that she would put him in jail (yes, ipapakulong daw nya ang anak ko.. anaka ng! pigilan nyo ako at sasampalin ko ang malditang iyon!). Today, this little bitch told my son and his group of friends that she would file a case on them (letse! ang bata bata, anong klaseng pamilya kaya meron itong babaitang ito?). A case? A 6 year old girl filing a case against 6 year olds? I know it’s childish to rant on this but, if you’re on my place, I am pretty sure you will react the same.

Oh guys, how do you deal this bitchiness?

I am quite at lost here..

I am thinking of telling the teacher about it (well I actually did but this bitch is not stopping).. but my husband told me to just teach my son on how to react to this bitchiness… (tinuruan manupalpal ang bata.. haay)

OK it’s your turn.. tell me.. but please don’t tell me that this too shall pass.. I just can’t tell him that.. I can’t tell him to keep quiet.. I am not like that.. (and you know that by now)…