Mommy Pehpot, Author at Mommy Pehpot

Helping Your Kids Develop Good Habits

Not all habits are bad and no matter what age your kids are there are a few universally regarded ways to keep them healthy, responsible and in line for a great future. As a parent, you want to steer them in the right direction without being a dictator. If your kids see you as a dictator, they will do the opposite of what you say. Therefore you should encourage healthy, fun habits that will stick with them as they become young adults:

Be careful with credit cards. From the time they are old enough to want to buy something you should be teaching your kids responsible spending behaviors. Get them one of the best cash reward credit cards and let them experiment with finances. At the end of the month if they can’t pay off their bills (which, of course, should be extremely low–$50 max) with chore money their spending luxuries are cut off. This will teach them valuable lessons for the real world.

Reading is cool. I don’t just mean the Chase Sapphire preferred review (although I guess if you’re teaching them about credit cards, it would be useful). Get your kids hooked (remember, not all habits are bad) on reading literature. Young adult (YA) fiction is bigger than ever with the Twilight series and the Hunger Games following closely in the footsteps of Harry Potter, and new high quality work appears every year. Studies have shown that kids who develop a love of reading early are more likely to be happy and succeed in life.

Be aware of Internet privacy. Most kids are smarter with social media than their parents but that doesn’t mean they’re necessarily safe. The Internet can be used for good and it can be used for bad and your kids should know that they have to be careful with what they post about themselves and who they interact with online. This will be important for the rest of their lives, as the Internet won’t be going away anytime soon. In addition to restricting what sites they visit you may have to set ground rules about what information (for example, where they live) they can share.

Raising kids in today’s society is not easy. With so much irresponsible spending and Internet sites, many dangers lurk about and bad influences come from all directions. But there are ways to steer your kids in the right direction without cramping their love of fun and being known as Mommy the Dictator.

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Smart Parenting Meet and Greet

Last December, I got to attend the Smart Parenting Meet and Greet event. It’s a small gathering of Smart Parenting moms together with the people behind SP. The event was held at Richmonde Hotel in Eastwood and attended by 30+ moms who are all avid SP readers.

Mia Fausto-Cruz, Editor-in-chief of SP magazine, welcomed the mommies. Relationship Coach, Ms. Aileen Santos shared with us a study done by Marau Emoto to water and the crystals formed on its frozen states. His expriments involved using good and bad words on the water. Some he labelled ‘You make me sick, I will kill you’ and the result was fascinating:

‘You make me sick, I will kill you’ ‘Thank you’

Ms Aileen Santos demonstrated ow powerful words are and how it affects our kids.

It was a very informative meet and greet event.. giving us a head’s up on how we should handle our kids. Smart Parenting sure knows how to help us in being a smart moms 🙂

My fellow mommy bloggers who also attended the Smart Parenting Meet and Greet.

Holiday Games That We Played

Our Christmas celebration was so much fun and one of the reasons why was the games that the kids played. Overall the kids played five games together with the big boys (my husband, my brother in law and my youngest brother). The first game they played was Stop Dance and the toddlers join in the fun. Sati, Chico and Dylan had so much fun dancing to the music but of course they do not know they have to stop when the music stops.

Then the boys played Pinoy Henyo with the older ones. My brother who was playing online bingo night had to stop what he was doing. Since Pinoy Henyo is a game where the players are paired with each other, the kids need their partners. Kayil was paired with my brother in law, Mico with my brother and Kieth with my husband.

The first round of the game, it was the kids who had to guess what is written on the paper on their forehead. To those who have no idea how this game is played, it is a game of logic. A word is placed in a piece of paper and put on the forehead of the other player. He will then ask his partner questions (that can only be answerable by yes, no or maybe) that in the end will guide him in guessing what the word is. It is deductive reasoning in the works.

The last game two games they played were Paper Dance and longest Ahh game. We also joined in the fun and our mom beat us in the longest Ahh game.