Mommy Pehpot, Author at Mommy Pehpot

Teaching Your Kids NOT To Be Shy

My second born went home last Monday, beaming with pride. He said his kuya was the one who lead the Alma mater song during the flag ceremony. Oh! I was overwhelmed, I almost cry. I have been telling them to participate in school and not to be shy.

As a kid, I was a very shy girl and I was an easy target to bullies. I do not want that to happen to my kids. I want them to be sociable and of course be the best they can be academically. My first born is now in Grade 3 and we have been telling him to always participate in school activities since he was in Grade 1 and now, he’s starting to pick up.

I think as parents, that’s the best thing we can do, push and support our kids. Let them know that we are here in every decision they made. Let me share with you some of the things we have been through to overcome shyness:

MTAP Seminars. I always let them join MTAP seminars every Saturday. I think being with their classmates for another day, beside the Monday- Friday schedule lets them enjoy socializing. And because of that, they kinda form a bond with their classmates, making them more confident with their social skills.

School Council Officers. Few weeks ago, I was busy preparing campaign paraphernalia for my first born. He run for P.R.O for the school council and of course we need to show our support even if it means not sleeping for 2 days. He lost but since I already explained to him that it’s the experience that counts, he’s happy with the result. In fact he was glad he run for P.R.O because he met new friends from upper grade level.

Canteen and Break time. I use to bring them food during lunch break but I realized, I can give them a break and let them eat with their classmates. Two days a week, they eat lunch at the school canteen with their friends.

In a way, I am lucky they love socializing too. They are not that super shy kind of kids unlike my third born. Third born will be in school next year and as early as now, I have been thinking of ways to make it easier for him:

Be at the school early, earlier than the the other students. Too many people overwhelms my third born and arriving in a school full of kids will scare him.
Assure him that I will be waiting for him outside. Oh yes, I think I have to stay on the school ground and wait for him. It is very important, specially for shy kids, that we do not break their trust. So I need to be there when he said I should be there waiting for him.
Talk to the teacher often. Let him know that me and his teacher are friends and that he can relax at the classroom.
Know the name of his classmates and ask him about them. It will challenge him to interact with his classmates so that he can tell something about them to mommy (talk about kids pleasing their parents).

So far, that’s what included on my strategy on how to over come shyness. I hope I can think of more ways and fun ways to help my third born overcome his shyness. I bet some moms at Seriously Fun Moms have something to say. If you have a shy kid, go check out the page to learn other ways in overcoming shyness.

Coping with Blogger’s Block

I have more than one blog and I am asked many times how I maintain more than one blog regularly, where I get all my materials, and where I get my inspiration to write?
To tell you honestly, writing was never my cup of tea. In college, I dreaded writing assignments and in fact had to take a Communication subject more than once. That’s how bad I was in writing. So how did I get into blogging? It was because I want to learn how to write. Applying for an essay writing service position inspired me to learn how to write. Obviously, I wasn’t accepted on the position I was applying for, and so I turned to blogging…and the rest is history.
Where do I get my topics and inspirations? What are the things I blog about?

I always answer: I have kids. Them alone (and their antics) is enough. I have a food blog, which again boils down to me having 4 kids. A family of 6 needs food; and not just food but lots of it. Cooking is already something I do a lot, so thinking of good topics for a food blog comes naturally. I also maintain a tech blog, for the mere reason of documenting my blogging adventure, discovering tips and techniques about blogging and what not.
But I do experiences blogger’s block (a condition similar to writer’s block); there are times that I have nothing to write and can’t even finish a hundred word blog post. And in times like these, I always go back to the reason why I started a blog and the reason why I have come to love this job. Of course, I have a few coping strategies when blogger’s block hit me:

Take a rest and talk to a human being…not a Facebook friend but a REAL human being. It gives me the stimulation I need without much distraction.
Essay reading or movie reviews reading. I get ideas from reading and my mind works double when I read. I think and I imagine what I would do differently.
Sleep is one of my favourite ways of coping. It refreshes my mind and energizes my body.
Blogger’s Notebook: I always carry a small notebook with me. Wherever I go, I have this notebook and when something interesting pops into my mind, I jot it down and when blogger’s block hits, I consult my notebook.

If you really love and you think that you owe it to your readers to publish a post as frequent as you can, try my strategies to cope with Blogger’s block.
Happy Blogging!

SM Toonfest K-Pop Fashion

“Kids today are a lot more conscious of what’s ‘in’ and get fashion ideas from their idols”, states Ms. Jo Dy Juanco, VP for Children’s Fashion, “These days, they draw inspiration from K-Pop stars and want to dress just like them.”

And so here are some K-Pop Fashion from SM Toonfest:

As you can see, there’s your favorite Barbie in there, Dora, Winnie the Pooh, Disney Mickey and a lot more!

As can be read in my post SM Toon Fest Brings Well-Loved Characters to K-Pop Fashion:

To showcase the new collections, SM Toon Fest is holding a search for its K-Pop Rising Star. The song, dance, and lip-synch competition invites boys, girls and groups aged 2-14 to let their inner superstars out for a shot at the spotlight and the Php100,000 grand prize!

For more details on the contest, kids and parents can visit www.risingstars.asia/smtoonfest/ and www.facebook.com/smkidsfashion.

So what are you waiting for? Let your kids try out the new SM Toonfest K-Pop fashion..