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3 Reasons Why Building Self-Confidence Is Critical To Your Success

Self-confidence is a deep sense of self-awareness within you that makes you confident and is a critical factor in your everyday life. Many people have goals to achieve, ranging from business-related goals to individual goals and they all require a certain level of self-confidence to achieve them.

It is therefore essential for you to build up some self-confidence. By this, you need to know your abilities and qualities well and in case you don’t, figure them out. Here are 3 reasons why building self-confidence is critical to your success.

It enables you to progress

What matters the most for you to progress fast is your belief in winning and your ability to succeed in what you do. Self-confidence is more like a booster that encourages you to start off things on our own. It gives you the ability to easily stretch your limits as well as test them. Whether you want to become an influential person or thrive in whatever you do, you have to be self-confident.

The moment you are not shy or afraid of standing out, give an opinion about something or speak out a new idea then you are on the road to progress. By doing this you gradually realize your capabilities and potential.

The same applies in business. If you want to strike a deal or get a job, you need to know how to be self-confident to show your prospective clients and interviewers how strong you are so as to sell yourself, products or services.

Self-confidence also enables you to attract the right kind of people into your life. Once you can engage an audience with your confidence, then they will be engaged and are more likely to listen to you. The more people you can attract, the more you progress.

It enables you to stand up for yourself

Self-confidence gives you the ability to either refuse something that you don’t want or don’t like or agree where appropriate. When you can stand up for yourself as well as your opinions in a fair and consistent manner, then you will get the proper treatment that you deserve. You will not be forced to do anything inappropriate. You make the final choice which determines what you want. Once you can make the right decisions, then you will be able to achieve your goals.

It helps to overcome the fear of both the known and the unknown

Most people who are not self-confident are afraid. While fear might be seen to be normal it can have negative impacts on your life since it can lead to failure. Be confident in your abilities and capabilities and do not fear what others think. For you to succeed you need to have the confidence to face and overcome your fears. Have the guts to ask a question when you don’t understand, even when others are silent or ask for a job rather than be afraid.

With self-confidence, there is so much that you can achieve. Most successful people are self-confident and believe in themselves, so you need to know how to love yourself, believe in yourself, your skills and capabilities to for you to succeed.

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5 Tips to Helping a Friend in a Harmful Relationship

It hurts to see someone you care about struggling in a relationship that seems to take away their joy and happiness. It is natural to want to look for ways of to help. Sadly, your friend may not be ready to listen to you. Worse still, it may be difficult for you to determine whether you’ll regret trying to solve the issue as your words may deepen the wounds they already have.


On the other hand, some people may appear happy and bright on the outside when they’re suffering from the effects of a harmful relationship in a real sense. If you realize that your close friend has this issue, then it’s possible to assist them. Here are some tips you need to help someone who is in a pestilent relationship.

1. Listen
Friends can go far if they love listening to one another. As your friend talks, support him or her and do not apply any pressure. Aggression is one of the worst things because it can push away your pal. When someone is heartbroken, what they need most is a person who can listen to them.

2. Air Your Concerns
One of the things that make your friend’s unhealthy relationship is when you lean on either extreme side, become silent on them, or strongly advise them to end the affair. The way to win the fight is to stay neutral. This is because your pal may be in self-doubt, making it difficult for them to see things clearly.
Airing your concerns is very important, especially when you know how to spot domestic violence. Speak up if you’re suspecting that your friend is a victim of abuse. Don’t hesitate and feel that you might be wrong or that your pal may not want to disclose their secrets. Your concern could let the person feel you care about them. You may even save a life!

3. Share Your Own Story
If you’ve ever been in a harmful relationship before, then you have a very powerful weapon to help your friend. Talk about your own toxic love story so as to identify with the person who is currently suffering. However, do not share in a way to condemn your friend. Be as gentle as possible.

4. Say What You Think Honestly
One of the most important ways of helping your friend who is in a harmful relationship is by being direct and honest with the person. Tell them just what they need, not what their ears are itching to hear. Your pal may value your take on the matter more seriously if they feel that you are honest with them. However, maintain a gentle attitude while talking.

5. Avoid Judging and Criticizing
There are chances that your friend is already processing the problem to find a lasting solution. Therefore, do not begin judging or criticizing them straightaway. It’s always wise to go with an open mind and hear what your pal has to say about the issue before making a comment.
Conclusion
Since relationships are very complex, it’s always wise to be careful when helping a friend who is in a toxic one. Otherwise, you may end up hurting your pal or making the harmful affair even more awful. Be extra sensitive.

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Walk In Passport Application DFA

Getting an appointment for passport at DFA Philippines is getting harder everyday. When I was trying to get an online appointment for my older kids, it took me days to finally get one. The key is to book at night since slots are better during those times. Lucky for me, I got an online appointment for my kids at SM Megamall DFA which is nearest to us and on a weekend! That’s double hurray for me! We also expereince how to Walk In Passport Application DFA 2018. 

Walk In Passport Application DFA

I have an event in SM MOA a few weeks ago and decided to try the Walk In Passport Application in DFA Aseana. Who are allowed to Walk In Passport Application DFA 2018:

  • Kids below 7 years old, their parents, and siblings 18 years old below
  • Solo parent and minor children
  • Senior Citizen and 1 companion (apo, anak, anak in law, kapatid, asawa)
  • PWD with one companion
  • Pregnant
  • OFW

How is the process of Walk In Passport Application DFA 2018? 

You just need to be there early. For the complete list of regional consular offices, satellite offices located in selected malls, here is the link> DFA Branches

There is not cut off per day as stated on the website for Walk In Passport Application DFA but in some cases when there is too many walk in applicants, they give exemption. That is why you need to be there earlier.

How long is the process for Walk In Passport Application DFA? 

For Marius and me on a Friday morning, it took us less than an hour to finish our application. Not much line during that day.

What are the requirements for Walk In Passport Application DFA?

  • Accomplished form
  • Valid ID (any of the following)
    • SSS, PRC, Driver’s Liscense
    • OWWA. iDOLE
    • Voter’s ID or Voter’s Certification
    • Senior Citizen ID
    • School ID
  • PSA Birth certificate of applicants (marriage contract for married)

For babies and kids who are not yet in school, birth certificate will do.

Cheapest and fastest way to get your PSA birth certificate? Check this website.

If you have a lot of kids (18 below) and you have one below 7 years old, all of you can apply as walk in applicants. I didn’t know these earlier kaya hiwalay ang pagkuha namin ng passport ni Marius. 

Application for passport with online appointment usually lasts 2 hours kaya kung may minor kayo or senior, sagarin nyo na!

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