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Yami’s File: Undas Traditions

Host: Hello everyone! As you all know, Pehpot is due with her (gasp!) fourth baby, so she asked me to be here and give you some entertainment, er, some worthwhile articles (oh she asked me to write on her blog!)


Host: So guys, I think we better name this portion as Blogging Today. The hottest talk show in blogniverse. You will be seeing a lot of me every Mondays and Wednesdays (that’s our day slot). We will be having guest bloggers (and most of them are her kumares) and so I hope you will continue to support the show even if Pehpot is not here.

This week we are focused on the traditions that comes with one of the most celebrated or respected occasion in our country, All Saint’s Day or to us Filipinos, UNDAS.

Our guest blogger for today (you would not believe) is a former media personality. She used to write in a tabloid but now is a full time mom but still sneaks on writing for cause. Let’s all welcome, YAMI from Mom Writes For A Cause!!!

Yami: (wish she had brought her kids along.. ) shy smile..

Host: I would love to ask you how you met Pehpot and how you were able to grow your friendship over the net but I guess there is a better place for that kind of chit chat (maybe later..) so now, tell me, how does it feels to be one of the guest here in Blogging Today?

Yami: Blogging Today? ah so that is the title of this guest blogger thing of my kumare. I am thankful to my Mareng Pehpot for inviting me as a guest blogger here today. It feels good to be given such an opportunity by a seasoned blogger like her. Thank you.

Host: So Yami, tell us about your UNDAS traditions. Do you still went to the cemetery to light up some candles and bring flowers to your departed love ones?

Yami: I grew up in the Catholic tradition of visiting the cemetery every Nov. 1. We would brave the crowd just to bring flowers and candles for our departed loved ones. The occasion itself serves as family reunion to us. And the ‘reunion’ would not be complete without the sumptuous “sinigang’ or ‘nilagang baboy’ served for lunch. In the afternoon, my mother would cook ‘kakanin’ usually ‘biko’ for our snack before we head to the cemetery.

Host: Sinigang? That sounds unusual to me. It was the first time I heard such during UNDAS, but I am pretty sure it was such a fun ” reunion”.

Yami: Yes it was but now we no longer practiced the tradition in recent years. It’s because there were no tombs to visit anymore. The area where once the cemetery stood for decades is now the haven of a big commercial establishment. My uncle failed to recover what was left of the remains of my grandparents. Oddly enough, the commercial area is reportedly haunted by ghosts.

My uncle was able to secure a ceremonial place for my lolo and lola at the next town’s cemetery.

So for many years, my family has been celebrating All Soul’s Day at home. I would light a candle beside the picture of my lola (sorry I have no picture of my Lolo to show you) and say a little prayer for them. My kids grew up seeing my simple way of remembering the life of their great grandparents. I hope they would do the same when they are older. I also light some candles outside our door, another common practice of those who practice the faith. It is said to guide the path of the spirits in another life.

The most common practice that my kids love during UNDAS is the sharing of ghost stories specially local legends like manananngal or aswang..

Host: (sits uncomfortably) Oh well, as much as I want to talk about ghosts and all, our time is up..In behalf of pehpot, I would like to thank you Yami for sharing with your UNDAS traditions.

To know more about Yami, head on to her site: Mom Writes For A Cause and Yami’s File. Again, thank you so much Yami and hope to hear more from you, see you again on Wednesday for our next episode of Blogging Today.

11 Comments Filed Under: Featured Tagged With: UNDAS, undas traditions, Yami

Blog Awards And Tags

Bambie of My Thoughts, My Heart, My Turf gave two awards! One is the Getting To know you tag where I need to list down 5 things about me or five things I love.. hmm let me see..

  1. Carpentry Tools. I can’t get enough of them. I want a set of screw drivers, hammer and the likes, and yes I do carpentry in the house to
  2. Chocolates. And who does not?
  3. Coffee. I am a sucker for this drink, can gulp down 5 cups in a day.
  4. Planning. A person suffering from OCD knows why..
  5. Cooking. I am not that good on it but the family needs to eat..

Suppose to pass this on to five bloggers that I just met but it seems that I haven’t met new friends.. argh.. better start blog hopping again!

Oh well, another award is the One Lovely Blog Award. Thanks Bambie for including me on your list.. And Kikamz of Just About Anything also gave me this award.. I feel so loved and lovely..

My Kumareng Seiko tagged me with a sizzling one tag.. DO YOU THINK YOU’RE HOT?

I have my fair share of insecurities but the hubby makes me feel hot hot.. so do I think I am hot? yes I DO..


Aside from answering do I think I am hot, I also have to upload my pic and answer some more questions.

Why do you love this picture?
I love this pic because I have short (wig) on this one.. and it looks good on me.. poor wig.. Ondoy took it (is he gay or what)

When was the last time you ate pizza?
I honestly can’t remember..

What was the latest song you’ve heard?
There is one stupid song that plays all over the radio.. I hate it so much that I can’t blog about it without cursing. It discriminate gays and women. In time I might write something about that and ask for it to be banned on the radio. Shit is better than that song.

What are you doing while working on this game?
Timing my contractions.. I hope it will be minutes apart in no time but it’s not progressing.. argh..

What is your favorite nickname?
pehpot what else?

What kind of person are you?
funny

What is your favorite song?
I don’t how to love him, Rage

What is your favorite food?
I just ate Kare Kare, so kare kare it is.

What is the most stressful thing to you?
When the three boys starts chanting all at the same time..

Mention the 3 must have items on your purse.
This is according to the hubby: Phone, Phone, Phone..nah I don’t have three phones but I often forgot to bring one, so hubby always reminds me to bring one.

What is your favorite color?
yellow, green..any shades of yellow.

What is your not full-filled yet dream?
none so far.. ah except to have our own house..

What is your favorite city to stay?
Pasig, I guess.. I have been living here for 5 years now and the thought of relocating to another city is sad..

There you go.. I am done with it! Yay! If I missed an award or tag just remind me but remind on Friday or Saturday as I post my tags and awards on Sunday only..

12 Comments Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Blogging, Tags and Awards

Mommy Moments- Tanturms!!

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So you thought I can do a week without posting my MM entry? as much as possible I don’t want to miss a week. Theme for this week is tantrums!!

Two days ago (and until now) , I been having contractions and I thought I will give birth to Sati before Friday, but it was all false alarm. I plan on putting up her first tantrums for this week but it seems, Sati is not a willing victim.

So for now, this will do. This is taken last October 10 (my sister’s wedding). See how Chico is throwing a feat, typical brat..

Just wanna share this (source)

Don’t try to argue or remonstrate with the child. While the tantrum lasts, she is beyond reason.

Don’t scream back if you can possibly help it. Anger is very infectious and you may well find yourself becoming angrier with every yell she utters. Try not to join in. If you do, you are likely to prolong the outburst because just as the toddler was about to calm down, she will become aware of your angry voice and it will start her off again.

Don’t let the child feel rewarded or punished for a tantrum. You want her to see that tantrums, which are horrible for her, change nothing, either for or against her. If she threw the tantrum because you would not let her go out into the garden, don’t change your mind and let her out now. Equally, if you had been going to take her for a walk before she had the tantrum, you should take her all the same, as soon as she is calm again.

Don’t let tantrums embarrass you into kid-glove handling. Many parents dread tantrums in public places but you must not let your toddler sense your concern. If you are reluctant to take her into the corner shop in case she throws a tantrum for sweets, or if you treat her with saccharin sweetness whenever visitors are present in case ordinary handling should provoke an outburst, she will soon realize what is going on. Once your toddler realises that her genuinely uncontrollable tantrums are having an effect on your behaviour towards her, she is bound to learn to use them and to work herself up into the semi-deliberate tantrums which are typical of inappropriately handled four-year-olds.

To know more about how to handle Tantrums, click here

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