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5 Tips to Helping a Friend in a Harmful Relationship

It hurts to see someone you care about struggling in a relationship that seems to take away their joy and happiness. It is natural to want to look for ways of to help. Sadly, your friend may not be ready to listen to you. Worse still, it may be difficult for you to determine whether you’ll regret trying to solve the issue as your words may deepen the wounds they already have.

On the other hand, some people may appear happy and bright on the outside when they’re suffering from the effects of a harmful relationship in a real sense. If you realize that your close friend has this issue, then it’s possible to assist them. Here are some tips you need to help someone who is in a pestilent relationship.

1. Listen
Friends can go far if they love listening to one another. As your friend talks, support him or her and do not apply any pressure. Aggression is one of the worst things because it can push away your pal. When someone is heartbroken, what they need most is a person who can listen to them.

2. Air Your Concerns
One of the things that make your friend’s unhealthy relationship is when you lean on either extreme side, become silent on them, or strongly advise them to end the affair. The way to win the fight is to stay neutral. This is because your pal may be in self-doubt, making it difficult for them to see things clearly.
Airing your concerns is very important, especially when you know how to spot domestic violence. Speak up if you’re suspecting that your friend is a victim of abuse. Don’t hesitate and feel that you might be wrong or that your pal may not want to disclose their secrets. Your concern could let the person feel you care about them. You may even save a life!

3. Share Your Own Story
If you’ve ever been in a harmful relationship before, then you have a very powerful weapon to help your friend. Talk about your own toxic love story so as to identify with the person who is currently suffering. However, do not share in a way to condemn your friend. Be as gentle as possible.

4. Say What You Think Honestly
One of the most important ways of helping your friend who is in a harmful relationship is by being direct and honest with the person. Tell them just what they need, not what their ears are itching to hear. Your pal may value your take on the matter more seriously if they feel that you are honest with them. However, maintain a gentle attitude while talking.

5. Avoid Judging and Criticizing
There are chances that your friend is already processing the problem to find a lasting solution. Therefore, do not begin judging or criticizing them straightaway. It’s always wise to go with an open mind and hear what your pal has to say about the issue before making a comment.
Conclusion
Since relationships are very complex, it’s always wise to be careful when helping a friend who is in a toxic one. Otherwise, you may end up hurting your pal or making the harmful affair even more awful. Be extra sensitive.

Paano Pumunta Sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018

Here’s another warehouse sale that you should not miss: Filstar Christmas Sale 2018. For the past years, they usually have a 2 day sale, mabuti na lang this year, 5 days sale na sila! What can you find at Filstar Christmas Sale 2018? At Paano Pumunta Sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018?

Filstar Christmas Sale 2018

Christmas gift wrappers for as low as 3 Pesos each. San ka pa? And the quality of the wrappers are like new ha. Hindi ito yung lukot level, na parang from last year’s gift na ni recycle lang, bago sya.. like National Bookstore level. Hallmark po ang brand ng wrappers and alam mong hindi mahal yan. They have everyday wrappers din.

Aside from Hallmark, other brands that are on sale are Art Attack, Craft Easy, BIC, Crayola, Easy Write (school supplies) and even shoes!

Paano Pumunta Sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018

Paano pumunta sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 pag galing ng PASIG PALENGKE?

pagdating sa PASIG palengke, ask nyo san pila ng tricycle na dadaan ng LAN GAS. Sabihin nyo sa tricycle, ibaba kayo doon then lakarin nyo na lang.. mga 3-5 meters lang away. Madali naman sya makita.

Paano pumunta sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 from Robinsons Galleria?

Bus na pa Cainta/Taytay or fx na pa Cainta/Taytay, sabihin nyo ibaba kayo sa Jenny’s. Pagdating sa Jenny’s, ask nyo saan pila ng tricycle na papunta/dadaan sa Jenny’s extension. Sabihin nyo doon kayo pupunta sa may sale malapit sa LAN GAS or sa may warehouse na maraming LALAMOVE van. Madaling makita yung Warehouse, ito sya sa picture:

Paano pumunta sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 from Shaw?

Jeep Pasig Palengke, pagdating sa palengke, ask nyo san pila ng tricycle na daan ng LAN GAS. Sabihin nyo sa tricycle, ibaba kayo doon then lakarin nyo na lang.. mga 3-5 meters lang away. Madali naman sya makita.

Paano pumunta sa Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 from BGC/Makati/SM North?

Basta ang clue, makapunta kayo sa Pasig Palengke at pagdating sa palengke, ask nyo san pila ng tricycle na daan ng LAN GAS. Sabihin nyo sa tricycle, ibaba kayo doon then lakarin nyo na lang.. mga 3-5 meters lang away. Madali naman sya makita.

Please watch the VLOG para makita nyo kung ano ano ang naka sale at kung talagang sulit na puntahan ito. Pero sinasabi ko sa inyo SUPER DUPER SULIT!

Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 Schedule

November 14-18, 2018. Warehouse opens at 9 AM and closes at 6 PM. Address of Filstar Christmas Sale 2018 is 80001-A Jenny’s Avenue Extension, Maybunga, Pasig City. Cash basis only.

About Filstar (from Filstar FB Page)

Filstar Distributors Corporation is a wholly-owned subsidiary of National Bookstore, Inc., the biggest school and office supply store chain in the Philippines with more than 100 stores nationwide.

The company maintains the prestige of being the exclusive licensee of Hallmark Cards U.S.A since 1974. In addition, Filstar acquried the exclusive distributorship of Bic Writing Instruments from France in 2001. And to add to its family of balloon products, it acquired the exclusive distributorship of Everts Balloons from Malaysia in 2003.

On the same year, the company introduced scrapbooking in the Philippines, creating the brand All About Scrapbooking. Sub brands include Craftin` & Scrappin`, a collection of scrapbook embellishements and accesories; Simply Handmade, an array of scrapbook materials made from indigenous materials like abaca, banana leaf, and coconut husk. Materials from this group are made by hand giving each item a unique look and finish; and Hallmark Scrapbooking Paper Sheets, Stickers, and accessories.

In 2007, Filstar introduced Hallmark Party! Party! — a colorful line of party favors that included round printed balloons, party poppers, Happy Birthday banners, craft sticks, finger puppets, spiral and hotdog balloons, to name a few.

In addition to its fine line of quality products, Filstar also introduced its own line of Photo Albums in 2008 under the brand PhotoFun.

And lastly, Skytes, a new range of fabric kites, was first sold in the market in 2009.

Filstar has approximately 400 field sales personnel, and prides itself in having varied channels of distribution reaching over 1,300 rooftops in the Philippines with majority of its products available at supermarkets, drug stores, convenience stores, book stores, department stores, hypermarts and variety stores.

Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms

I never thought this day would come that I would be writing about Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms. Though I have been blogging for 10 years, I am quite delayed when it comes to embracing technology. I prefer to call myself an old fashion mom. I love writing and doing or jotting my task the old style. But a few events in my life changed it. I am still a planner person but I am welcoming some changes. Check your phones and see if this Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms are installed.

Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms

Period Tracker- Period Calendar

This app available both on Google Play and Apple App store. All women and not just moms should have this. What does Period tracker do:

prevents you from getting pregnant if you don’t want to because it tells you when it is safe to do it
can make you pregnant if you are planning because it tells you if it the chance of getting pregnant is high
lets you know when your period is coming
saves your life!

And this app is super easy to use. You just need to input the first day of your period and how many it usually lasts and you are all set. THIS APP IS A MUST DOWNLOAD!

Trello

This app available both on Google Play and Apple App store. This is way better than a planner I tell you. The only difference or the only reason why you’d still want to use a planner is because of the smell of the paper and the act of writing/doodling. But everything you need to be very organized is this.

I have been very productive ever since I used this app. This is the only app I use to organize my blogging, my tasks as a social media influencer and my duties as a mom. Total lifesaver!

There is no limit on what you can write there. Coffee at 8 AM? Magwalis at 9 AM? Sort out ng labahin at 10? Pwedeng pwede!

GCash

This app available both on Google Play and Apple App store. Yes, you have to be a Globe user to have a GCash. Download the app and then go to any Globe center to get verified.

Why is Gcash included in the Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms? You can pay your bills using Gcash and they sometimes offer rebates when you use it. How to load your Gcash: 5 ways to laod your Gcash wallet. Pwede din mag transfer ng pera from paypal to Gcash! Verification can be tricky though. I tried to get verified through the center but it was not approved yet 🙁 Also tried through messenger but to no avail. I will try again and give you tips on how to get your Gcash verified.

But it is a good thing no? That strict verification? It makes you feel safe when transacting through GCash. Dapat ang mga online sellers, may GCash din.

Eatigo

Eatigo is available both on Google Play and Apple App store. One reason why you should have this on your phone: FOOD DISCOUNTS

You get 20%-50% off on your food. You choose the resto, choose your time and then confirm your reservation. It is also

Supermarket and top online stores Apps

As of now, I have Shopwise WiseApp, Lazada, and Shoppe. I still have to download a few apps perfect for the shopper in me.

This is so far is what I think the Top 5 Mobile Apps For Filipino Moms.